Nov
The Holidays
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by AJ on 16-11-2009
Yep, it’s me again! “Oy vey!” you say!?! Welllll, hang on to your yarmulkes and listen. When Ira and I walked into the studio for the first time and started doing the Down Home Shalom radio outreach show, we agreed that we would never, ever, ever debate a “Gentile” holiday (like Christmas or Easter) on that given holiday. We think it is disrespectful and rude! We work hard to thaw cold hearts and give our listeners uplifting things to ponder. We call it like we see it! We call good, good! and we call evil what it is–evil! We have always tried to be a good tool for G-D’s greater glory. Now, having said all of this, permit me to share with you all.
A few Decembers ago, my wife Shela was shopping at Wal-Mart. She accidentally bumped a display of bagged walnuts while rounding a corner, and the whole thing came tumbling down! She said she was terribly embarrassed. She looked up and another shopper came over to her and started helping Shela pick up the bags and replace them on the display. While they stacked, the other lady told Shela that she saw it happen and laughed to herself saying “I’m glad that wasn’t me!” Just then, the lady said she felt a sense of guilt and compassion and felt compelled to come and help Shela straighten up the mess. After they finished, the lady asked my wife to forgive her for that selfish thought, and then she smiled and turned to her own shopping cart and walked away.
I remember as a kid growing up in Chicago how the Salvation Army fed the hungry and had parades at Christmas! I remember how people seemed, more than at any other time of year, to want to help one another. It made me happy and even more curious about Yeshua (Jesus).
One of mine and Shela’s favorite friends is Ethel Chadwick. Ethel is the host of a Messianic outreach radio show called Bagels and Blessings, which broadcasts out of Rochester, New York. Ethel once said that as a young girl she used to sing Handel’s “Messiah” in a children’s youth group, never realizing that she was singing about Yeshua (Jesus)! Ethel is a good Jewish girl with a beautiful singing voice and loves to sing! I was mortified when I discovered that, out of all my friends, I embarrassed the two that I and Shela love most of all, Ira and Kathy Goldberg! I, quite by accident, found that Ira and Kathy love to go to the mountains during Christmas and look at the beautiful holiday lights. Ira is a solid and good Jewish man! I noticed that TV stations ask for donations for different local charities to help feed and clothe the homeless over the Christmas holiday. Most everyone, including lots of us Jews (believing and non-believing), tend to want to be extra generous at this time of year!
I then started thinking about all this. “UH OH!” you say. “Is AJ going G-O-Y!?! NOOO!” Now look, don’t you all get your tzi-tzit un-knotted! I’m just saying!! Now keep reading and don’t get lost.
When my dad was born, his birth was not properly recorded. My dad never knew when he was really born, as he was orphaned at a young age. Now let’s fast forward to when he was middle-aged. My little sister Nora was born on Independence Day–yeah, the 4th of July. My dad was so grateful and felt so blessed by her birth (after five boys, this was his first daughter) that he decided that from that day on he would celebrate his birthday with Nora. He did not know when he was born, so he picked this day, her day, to share and celebrate. Dad did this until the day he died.
Now I love Chanukkah. To me, it is a wonderful and magical time of year! It’s the Festival of Lights, man!! My kids go wild! We have eight nights of gift giving, scripture reading and great food!! (my favorite). We put out the different color Chanukkah candles and we hang different color lights outside to decorate our house! But again, I started thinking and I was left to look at myself and ask myself, “Hey, have you been a little too rigid here, Sizemore?” That’s when it occurred to me! If my Jewish Savior, yes my Jewish Messiah, has in the past and still inspires the world to stop even just for one day (even though we Jews know it’s not His real birthday) and have goodwill towards men and show compassion for each other in HIS NAME, a JEWISH SAVIOR’S NAME!! then thank G-D!! We as a people have been blessed by G-D to be (sort of) contributors to this holiday, and it is celebrated in the name of a JEWISH MESSIAH! Again, I’m not going to put up a Christmas tree or hunt Easter eggs! No, but I take comfort knowing that all things will eventually work for the glory of my G-D and my Jewish Savior, Yeshua HaMashiach (Jesus Christ)! And to all my friends, please forgive me if I was too rigid when you just wanted to be happy and rejoice in the L-RD.
Blessings and Shalom!
AJ
